I am happy to report that two of my three chickadees take care of their business in the toilet these days (we still have the occasional accident). Despite many tutorials on the proper "wipe," I still hear, "Mommy come wipe my bottom," a few times everyday. My oldest is 5 and has attended preschool, successfully wiping her own bottom for two years while I'm away. When I reminded E of this fact, she explained, "I only take little ones at school. I save the big ones for home, so I need your help wiping at home, but not at school." Thank you. Thank you very much!